January 30 and 31 Joy Dares

January 30 Joy Dare - 3 old things seen new.

My car. Let me explain. My car and I have not always been friendly. I've even been quite mad at it sometimes. However, I'm so grateful that my car, with 183,000 miles, is still chuggin along for me. I drive between 80-100 miles on a normal day and even more when I have errands and such to run. It was a little quirky for a while, but it seems to have healed itself to some degree in order to let me continue to stack the miles on. I pray I can make it last another year or so, if not longer!

My boy and his manners. You know that moment when you just know something is different and you're able to recognize it. I've noticed, in the last couple of months, anywhere and everywhere I drive my son, ends with a thank you. Even if I'm picking him up from work, dropping him off at work - simple tasks that all moms do. He will seek me out to thank me, in case he forgot as we were getting out of the car. He was always mostly polite, but lost some of his touch during his mid-teen years - thank yous became hit or miss, depending mostly on the mood.  They've returned, full-force, and it makes my heart happy.

Me. I can hardly begin to understand God's grace, mercy, forgiveness, love... yet, here I am. Forgiven. Loved. He has made me new. He has washed me clean. He has given me a heart that breaks for Him. A heart that seeks Him. He has redeemed this old gal.

January 31 Joy Dare - A gift on paper, in a person, in a picture.

This paper greets me each morning as I sit at my desk. Nothing fancy. Just a piece of paper. Gentle reminder. My Jesus. 

Nicole. One of the things I love most about my day is snuggle time with Nicole. Hardly a night goes by that she doesn't jump into my lap and tell me about her day. She brings me joy. 

My heart longs for this place. This nation. One day, I will walk amidst these trees. Love the people. Share the gospel. 

January 29 Joy Dare

January 29 Joy Dare – A song heard, a soft word, light seen.

Have you noticed my absence? Perhaps not. It’s okay, I’m not too heartbroken. =]

I had a little mini-vacation last week! And while it was mini, prepping for it and recouping from it to dive right back into my regular schedule was pretty hectic.

I did my Joy Dares throughout the week, and I am not going to feel one bit guilty about not noting them here. It takes time for that, and I just don’t have that today. So, I’ll pick up with today's Joy Dares and let you all sit in wonder about last week! =]~

A song heard – Jamie Grace’s Holding On. It melts my heart every.time.I.hear.it.

If only I can fight just a little longer

I know I’ll be stronger

A soft word – mama. My dear friend’s son, calling out her name, through his sniffles. It was a sweet sound this morning.

Light seen – The sunrise this morning was absolutely incredible. Yesterday we had an icy start to the morning, most commuters running behind or staying home all together. This morning, walking out the door, it was an amazing 48 degrees and it just felt beautiful. Watching half the sky covered in clouds and the other half preparing the way for the coming sun was just breathtaking. 

Days of Joy Dares

Joy Dare catch up! Whew! It's been one doozie of a week! I've been trying to keep track of my Joy Dares, but I admit – I missed a couple days. These things happen. I have grace with myself. =]

January 15 Joy Dare – A gift worn, given away, shared.

A gift worn were these beautiful earrings. My son is not a gift giver. It's not his thing. However, now that he's a working man, he asked me if I'd like to go to WalMart and pick out a gift. How could I refuse?! A pair of earrings, a new journal, a coke, and a kit kat later – my $12 Christmas shopping spree was over. I loved every minute of it!

A gift given away are these scarves. I made several of them this Christmas season and I was able to bless quite a few women I love with a handmade gift!

A gift shared was my annual review at work. I know this may sound weird, but I had my review on the 15^th and it was great to have my manager share with me areas I've grown and areas he'd like to see improvement. I think critique, done right, is a great thing! And my manager does it right!

January 16 Joy Dare – Three witnessed blessings.

I'm sad to say this is one day in which I didn't keep track. I'm sure I witnessed blessings on this day since not a day goes by that I don't witness blessings, I just didn't capture any specific ones that day.

January 17 Joy Dare – A gift bringing laughter, prayer, and quiet.

Strangely, all these gifts came in the same package. We have a baby in the house! He brought me laughter, prayer, and quiet. He's such a handsome, small, beautiful blessing.

January 18 Joy Dare – Three gifts from Gods Word.

Matthew 21:22 And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.

Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

Bombs Away. Watch.Fall in Love.

January 19 Joy Dare – Three gifts that might never have been.

The first one is easy. Some of you know this, some of you don't. It's not something I share, but I couldn't help but share it now. My boy! When I found out I was pregnant, after saying that I never wanted children, I was petrified. My first call was to the abortion clinic, the second to my mom, the third to his dad. I had no intentions to have a baby. I DID have a baby and now I have an adult son! The best gift that might never have been.

My friendship with the family I live with presently. Had we not both started going to the same church, the same weekend, we may have never met. The Lord guided each of us to that place. I'm grateful.

My job. I saw an email. Had no expectation or hope, but I did have prayer. And I prayed. A lot. I've been there 5 ½ years. =]

January 20 Joy Dare – Three gifts only seen close up.

Shame, this is the other one I missed. =\

January 21 Joy Dare – A gift in sky, water, memory.

The Sun! It was present today! While it was still cold and windy, the sun did make an appearance.

I don't think I have a water gift today. Of course, I've been holed up, working, a good bit of the day, but I surely can't think of a gift in the water!

My mom. My aunt. These two women are so precious to me, but since we're spread all over the country now, I can only keep my memories in my heart to keep me from being too sad. I sure miss them! 

January 14 Joy Dare

January 14 Joy Dare - 3 startling graces of God.

I love this one! =]

When the Holy Spirit guides me down an unexpected path. The are some things we know God calls us to do and then there are things that just *BAM* show up and slap us upside the head... for me, that's sometimes how the Holy Spirit has to work in me. I'm hard headed. =]

His forgiveness. When I mess up, which, let's face it, is often - I know that if I am truly sorry for what I've done, I can just wash it away. It doesn't matter. It's gone. He loves me.

His love. Again, no matter where I go wrong, right, sideways... He's there and He loves me. He never turns from me or gives up on me. Ever. Isn't that refreshing?!

Weekend Joy Dares

The weekend just gets away from us sometimes, doesn't it? It especially gets away from us during NFL playoff games - I'm just sayin... =]

I was hoping to gather a couple photos on Saturday for my Joy Dare, but it didn't happen - life happened. It happens.

January 12 Joy Dare - Something above, below, beside.

The roof above my head! I've had a really difficult couple of years financially and I've been so blessed to have great friends to offer up a wee bit of their home for my son and I to call our own. While I really, really miss having my own home - sharing one with people who love me so much is pretty awesome, too.

My gift below is my footing. I think that even though I still tremble at times and even though I still slip a little, I'm grateful for the firm foundation that Christ has allowed for me. I feel as if my footing is more secure than ever and I can stand firmly on it.

isn't he precious?!

My gift beside (on Saturday) was Tiki... Tiki is my obnoxiously fat cat. On any given evening - he is the first to greet me when I get home, the one who sits beside me while I pine away at the laptop, catch up on some work, or even while I'm in the bathroom. He's been a constant companion to me since I moved to this area in 2004. I love him mucho!



January 13 Joy Dare - 3 things about yourself that you're grateful for.

hmmm... how can I spin this so it looks like it's about me, but it really isn't... Oh!

I have really great taste in friends! I have some of the best friends ever and a really love the support system that God has put around me. =]

I am grateful for my desire to learn. It's almost obsessive. Okay, it probably is obsessive. I think sometimes others may think that I'm being freakishly demanding, but I really just want to know what makes things tick, what makes YOU tick, where does it say that, why did that happen, why did she choose that road and not that one. It isn't judgement, it's curiosity and the desire to know why, how, when, where... don't hate me for asking a gad-zillion questions. It comes from a good place, I promise.

I'm grateful for my path. I do my very best to not have regrets. Sure, there are things I wish I would have done differently, but that doesn't mean I regret those choices. It means that those choices are the ones that led me to this exact place at this exact moment. There may be a whole gang of women that I get to minister to because of those choices. No regrets.

January 11 Joy Dare

**Who knew I had a draft of this just sitting on my blog waiting to be published?!

January 11 Joy Dare - 3 yellow gifts of fresh mercy.

I think the most obvious choice for this is the sunrise. I talk about the beautiful sunrise I get to see each morning and it really is just a reminder to me that each day is new and fresh. It also reminds me that yesterday is gone and mercy awaits me!

Fresh tulips. I'm not a HUGE flower fan, but there are some that I just really like. Tulips in the Spring are one of my favorites. It means a fresh new year of productivity. I like anything fresh and whole - and when flowers start to bloom, it means that gardens will soon be ready to be started and all that bounty will need to be eaten! =]~

A little redundant, I know, but sunsets are also a yellow gift of fresh mercy to me. Similar to the fresh start, the sunset is a reminder that the day is done - rest is near - new mercies are coming! 

January 10 Joy Dare

January 10 Joy Dare - A gift sour, sweet, and just right.

A gift sweet is the candy cane full of Mike and Ike's that I was gifted on Christmas morning. I just finished off my supply of them today and they were GOOD! =]

A gift sour is this beautiful jar of pickles that my friend made and gifted to me. It's almost ridiculous how I can eat them every, single day.

A gift perfect was tonights Discipleship class. I'm literally in love with this time spent with my church family. Don't get me wrong. We're not perfect. We don't say all the perfect things. But it is perfect time together studying God's Word.

That's all I got tonight! Share your joy dares! I'd love to hear them! =]

January 9 Joy Dare

January 9 Joy Dare - a gift held, passed by, sat with.

Don't get bored with this post. Okay, you can do what you want, but I don't want you to get bored. I'm having a mommy moment!!

My son, who just turned 18, has wanted to get a tattoo for a few years now. All of his friends have them - even some of his youngest friends! I told him, waaaaay back when he was 16, that if he waited until he was 18 and didn't tattoo himself, I would pay for his first one.

Here were the stipulations: I had to approve the tattoo and I had to pick the artist. My overall goal was that he didn't go into something half-cocked and end up stuck with something forever that he didn't really think about completely. Also, I wanted to be sure that we went to a quality artist and not some buster trying to make a few dollars, all while taking risks with my kids life!

The very first tattoo he showed me, I fell in love with it! I thought it represented him and his personality and it wasn't something he'd regret in a few years. So, I made the appointment and waited for him to become "legal."

All that to share my gifts for today...

A gift held was the conversation time with my boy. We were in the car for a little while, then got lost, then waiting for the tattoo to be drawn, and all the while we filled the space and time with great conversations. It was memory making in my book!

A gift passed by was the tattoo shop. Like I said, we got lost. We found it. We laughed. It was all great.

A gift sat with was my boy getting his tattoo done! I was able to share a first time experience with my son as a grown man. What a strange, wonderful feeling. I was watching skin that *I* created, in my womb, being marked up by something I didn't play a part in (I know, God was really the Creator of his skin, but I did have a little something to do with it!). It was a weird, beautiful experience. I also was able to be the fly on the wall being part of his grown up conversation, with a grown up man, about grown up things - like tattoos and girls and music. I glimpsed my son with new eyes tonight and I loved every second of it.

Reppin' the "D" and music - his true love. 

Joy Dares are comin atcha!

I have to make up for lost time! I have three days worth of Joy Dares to share. =] Is anyone doing this with me? Am I all alone here? Comon y'all!

January 6 Joy Dare - One thing in your bag, your fridge, your heart.

In my bag is always lotion. Some people may think that's a weird thing to find joy in, but I have an extreme love of lotion and it's always being passed around at church, meetings, etc... because people know I always have it!

In my fridge (on Sunday) was a big supply of chili! I love making chili. I love eating chili! I love making chili for other people to eat! It was a good football, chili kinda day.

In my heart is love. Not a love I understand either. I mean a deep down, overwhelming, well of a place I didn't know existed. It's there that I find joy.

January 7 Joy Dare - Three graces from people I love. 

My dear friend at work asking me if I was okay and sticking around to actually *hear* the answer. 
An untimely, unrehearsed, and completely random jam session with a great couple of people! It made my heart soar!
Snuggle time with my favorite 7 year old.

January 8 Joy Dare - Dusky light, surprising reflection, lovely shadow.

Ugh. I wish I had see this one earlier in the day. I would've loved to snap some pictures!
Dusky light as I was driving home and passed a farmer burning brush on his property.
The surprising reflection was the mini rainbow I saw in the sky as the sun was setting and it wasn't even raining! =]
I don't think I've seen a shadow today! At least not one that I recall. Weird, right?

January 5 Joy Dare

January 5 Joy Dare - Something you're reading, making, and seeing.

Right now, I'm working through Romans. Since it's a memorization project, I'll be taking it in very small bites. But it's what I'm reading right now. I also have a book on my Kindle that I've been listening to today, but for the life of me, I can't remember the name of the book. =]

This is a scarf I'm making. This yarn and I have been in a battle for months. I've finally found something I can do with it and it was supposed to be a Christmas gift for someone, but I ran out of time. However, I'm still working on it and hope to give it to the intended before too long. 

Today I was able to see a dear friend I haven't seen in a few weeks. She's been very ill and between illness, freaky snow storms, and the holidays - coupled with the hour and a half - two hour commute to see her, it's been very difficult. BUT! Today I got to see her sweet face, pray with her, and just spend a few hours loving on her. It really couldn't have been a better day. 

January 3 and 4 Joy Dare!

I didn't get to post my Joy Dare yesterday. I wanted to wait until the end of the day because it just seemed like that kinda thing... yanno?

January 3 Joy Dare - Three graces overheard.
The giggles of the sweet 7 year old with whom I have the pleasure of sharing a home. 
The cooing of a new mom with her sweet baby boy. 
"Good night" whispered to me by my friend when she knew I had a long day and just couldn't do one.more.thing.

January 4 Joy Dare - A gift old, new, blue. 
An old gift is my car. The poor thing has been through a lot and drives me hundreds of miles a week just to get me back and forth to work. I would really love a new car, but this one has been so good to me! When it's time to say goodbye, it might be a bit of a moment for me.
A new gift is the new approach to life we each get to take - sometimes at the beginning of the year or sometimes midway. When we decide to turn our lives around or focus on a new step or a new lifestyle, it's like a new breath! We don't have to wait until January 1, we can take that breath anytime!
A gift blue is the sky! We are having a beautiful morning here in VA/WV today. My drive to work was spec.tac.u.lar! I absolutely love watching the sunrise over the mountain. It really is one of the best parts of my day. For the next week or so, we're being told about mild temps and sunny skies - that all makes me very happy!

My Joy Dare and One Word 2013 challenges

Last year when I decided to do Ann Voskamp's Joy Dare challenge, I didn't document it the way I should have... I would either post things on Facebook, in different FB groups, share it with friends, or maybe journal about it some days. This year I have a desire to be consistent with how I approach my Joy Dare. The best time of the day for me to do this is lunchtime. I'm usually at work during lunchtime. I don't always have my journal with me and the need to carry one more thing every day is not high on my list of things to do. However, I almost always have access to a computer somewhere - so, this shall be my vehicle for carrying out the Joy Dare this year.

I am also praying about my One Word 2013 like crazy! I sort of did the same thing last year with my word. I used many different avenues to talk about it or write about it, but never one consistently. This, too, I hope to change this year! And, as soon as I know my word, I'll be sure to share it. It really was very valuable for me to cling to last year and I saw many areas that benefited because I had a desire to be better at whatever was in front of me.

So, on to the Joy Dare's for January. This is a printable available on Ann's website, but she also has a printable on her site for every month through October! If you've never gone to her site - go. Go now. She is a daily read for me - it's that good. =]

January 1 Joy Dare - three things about myself for which I am grateful. Hmm... she really knows how to kick off a new year, right? I mean, right away I have to shed my modesty and find something in me that makes me grateful... about myself?! Does she realize that she just gave me a blow to the heart?! This will probably be one of the hardest and it's only the first one! Okay, okay... so... let's see. I'm grateful for my heart that overflows with love for others, for the brokenness that I've gone through to get where I am today, and for the Son who died on the cross so that I may be saved. - There... that wasn't so hard. =]

January 2 Joy Dare - A gift outside, inside, and on a plate. Well, right now there is snow outside, while that may be a gift for some people, it isn't a gift for me. However, it isn't snowing today, so I suppose my outside gift today can be that there's no more snow! =] My gift inside is warmth. Many people don't have the simple luxuries of having warm places to go. I have only warm places to go and that is surely a gift. My friend gifted me some french fires today - I didn't put them on a plate, but I could've had I known that would have been one of today's Joy Dares! French fries are always a gift for me! =]